
OK, just had to share this. This isn't a post for a grade, just something I wanted to blog about because it was such a random, cute moment.
-”The action in this graceful game is ongoing integration. One by one, you bring everything tou have been resisting into the fold. You, as the board, make room for all the moves, for the capture of the knight and the sacrifice of your bishop, for your good driving and the accident, for your miserable childhood and the circumstances of your parents’ lives, for your need and another’s refusal. Why? Because that is what is there. It is the way things are.” (p.146)
Religious beliefs aside, we as human beings have been given/granted the freedom of choice and/or “Free Will.” We could all fall victim of circumstance, but it is what we chose to do with those circumstances that define who we are. By “becoming the board”, we become in essence the beacon of our own possibilities.
-”I have come to realize that people will do what they want to do ---which means that sometimes they will come to rehearsals and sometimes they won’t---and i must respect their decisions.” (p.153)
Ben has spoken much truth in his letter to Cora. I have to admit that although I have come to the same realization many times, I am still not at 100% of acceptance and continue to have this inner battle through the years that I have taught. I have let the fact that maybe not every student shares the excitement I have for a new unit or the literature get in the way of enjoying teaching the lesson. Each time I would let the hurt I felt chip away at how passionate I am about the subject matter. I am getting better and I revert to the words of my department head, “Your are the teacher, any tears shed should be theirs for the poor decisions THEY have made.” I am working on “Becoming the Board!”
WK Four-Being the Board
Sunday, May 23, 2010
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Sunday, May 23, 2010 - 07:48 PM
Trisha,
First I want to thank you for the comments on my last post. You speak encouraging words!
Second, I wanted to comment on this week's reading. I just wanted to congratulate you on being a reflective thinker. When I read the chapters, I often think of specific stories, students, or situations that the stories in the book would apply to in my life. I identify with your department head's comment, that student's poor decisions are their responsibility. While it's easy to say, it isn't easy to follow through, when some students seem to care less about themselves than we do. I'm currently struggling with high absenteeism this trimester at the high school, and kids who won't graduate unless they pass my class, since it's a requirement at the state level. I have to remind myself that it is their decision, and they can graduate this summer, (later) not now doesn't mean not ever. And it is their decision, not mine. Again, easy to say, not easy to understand. I also am working at "Becoming the Board...." luck to both of us! :)
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Mel,
I'm so glad you found a place to present. I wanted to go in the presentation direction, but I can't seem to find a place to present this year, and next year would be too expensive.
Another issue that was cleared up was that we can whittle down our presentations or writings to what we've already done (written or worked on), and not the whole thing! Reading that email made my day!
I'm so glad to hear that we all feel like we're going a million different directions; I always feel that way this time of year, but especially with working on this program. We all want to do a great job, and it's hard to feel you're doing your best work in such limited time, but what can we do?
Good luck with publication, and I hope you are accepted as a presenter! I'm sure they would be happy to have you, and you'd do a great job!